When Love Requires You to Disappear - Romantic Relationships

For the person who has made herself smaller to fit the relationship better — suppressing preferences, managing emotions, staying in the warmth by making herself easier to love. This book addresses people-pleasing in intimate partnership, from the love equation that drives self-erasure to the patterns that prevent genuine intimacy. Includes a five-step return framework, eleven scripts for intimate honesty, and the honest reckoning with what the relationship can and cannot hold.